1. Why do I have to pay a deposit?
2. How can I pay my deposit?
3. Why are Amazon vouchers not preferred as a down payment?
4. How high is the tribute?
5. Why am I not negotiating?
6. Is a session shorter than 60 minutes possible?
7. Why don't I need a picture of your face?
8. Do I offer long-term sessions?
9. When did I have my first experiences with BDSM?
10. Do I play privately? House slave? Bi-slave & Co.
11. What is possible in the area of Kv?
12. What if KV is not possible on your booked session?
13. What happens to my deposit if I cancel?
14. Pricing & Hygiene
15. Spontaneous appointments
If your question is not listed here, please feel free to ask me via my contact form so that I can answer it as quickly as possible.
1. Why do I have to pay a deposit?
This can be easily explained by the fact that there are many people who do not take their appointments seriously or do not show up. I regret that such people spoil the experience for me. I use the deposit as a way of securing the appointment, because this is the only way I can be sure that my time is not wasted unnecessarily and that I can make time for people who appreciate my passion for BDSM.
2. How can I pay my deposit?
I have several options to choose from:
PayPal, real-time bank transfer, or personal handover at visitable appointments
Anonymous: Cash letter/package to a post office box, Paysafe, or another voucher if necessary.
I am aware that, unfortunately, there are also many fraudsters on the service provider side, and I distance myself from such methods.
Anyone who doubts my authenticity is welcome to give me a deposit in person when I am available for visits, or to convince themselves of my authenticity by checking my FSK 18 rating via my bank account and ID, as well as my ID check via my prostitute ID and the session reports on my Kaufmich profile of the same name.
3. Why are Amazon vouchers not preferred as a payment?
I work with 110% discretion. As I am a full-time and therefore registered dominatrix in accordance with § 3 ProstSchG, I prefer transfers via PayPal or bank and cash letters. These payments are easier for me to record directly in my accounting or cash book. Apart from that, I cannot pay taxes or rent via Amazon.
4. How high is the tribute?
You can find this information under the menu item “Session.”
Home/hotel visits only from 2 hours
Travel costs of €70 for home and hotel visits within Düsseldorf, Duisburg, Mülheim an der Ruhr, and Essen.
In some regions, I have to calculate my prices differently because rental costs are higher there.
5. Why am I not negotiating?
Negotiating kills passion.
I'm not upset if I don't fit your budget, but please spare me the negotiation or “too bad” messages. Total mood killer! Please find a service provider within your price range.
6. Is a session of less than one hour possible?
I am not a fan of 5-minute spitting sessions, 15-minute toilet training sessions, or 45-minute anal sessions, which is why I only offer sessions lasting an hour or longer. I want to enjoy our session without any time pressure.
7. Why don't I need a picture of your face?
I don't care whether the person I'm talking to is tall or short, fat or thin. You can feel comfortable with me.
8. Do I offer long-term sessions?
Of course, I also offer long-term sessions throughout Germany.
The package includes: travel expenses, location costs, and session.
A deposit of 35% is also required for such appointments. Again, I do not negotiate on this point.
9. When did I have my first experiences with BDSM?
I first came into contact with BDSM at the age of 13 and have been very interested in the subject ever since. I started “offering” free practice sessions under a different name when I was 16. Before I started my own business in the commercial sector, I had to be 1500% convinced of my work. Even now, I take advantage of professional training courses to gather new ideas and inspiration and to stay up to date.
10. Do I play privately? House slave? Bi-slave & Co.
No, I don't play privately – and I don't do it for free either. Not even if you “just” want to be a bi slave or something similar. My time is precious. I have no interest in new house slaves or personal sissies.
11. What is possible in the area of Kv?
You are welcome to ingest my divine caviar during toilet training or enjoy it with a scat gag. Rubbing and anything that goes beyond toilet play should be carefully considered.
12. What if KV is not possible on your booked session?
I first came into contact with BDSM at the age of 13 and have been very interested in the subject ever since. I started “offering” free practice sessions under a different name when I was 16. Before I started my own business in the commercial sector, I had to be 1500% convinced of my work. Even now, I take advantage of professional training courses to gather new ideas and inspiration and to stay up to date.
If you decide not to attend the appointment on that day for this reason, your deposit or payment will remain valid. You can use it for a replacement appointment within the next 30 weekdays.
If we are unable to find a new appointment in the foreseeable future due to your schedule, 65% of a fully paid appointment will be refunded to the payment method you used. If you have only made a deposit, this will replace the canceled appointment, up to a maximum of 35% of the total session fee. If we can only find an appointment after 33 weeks, that's not a problem. Only people who speak up can be helped.
13. What happens to my deposit if I cancel?
“If for some reason I can't make it and cancel the day before, you just pocket the deposit.”
That's right, because your deposit is precisely for that purpose: to cover my work, the preparation, costs incurred for studio rental, for example, the reserved appointment that I couldn't give to anyone else, and thus to compensate for the missed appointment.
This also applies if you do not consider it necessary to cancel your appointment or if
“I haven't heard from you in x hours, so I assumed the appointment wasn't happening.”
For me, a deposit for an appointment means a binding appointment for both.
For appointments that can be visited, as in the case mentioned, you will receive the studio address for your planning immediately after making the deposit. I am a big believer in planning security.
If you cancel your appointment early (early = up to 72 hours before the start of the appointment), your deposit will remain valid and you can use it for an alternative appointment within the next 30 weekdays. For available appointments, this applies until the next available appointment. If you cancel again or do not show up for your appointment, the deposit will be forfeited.
14. Pricing & Hygiene
As you may have already noticed, I prioritize quality over quantity.
Continuing education is also part of this.
Especially in the clinical sector, I exclusively use materials from reputable manufacturers, where sterile and quality is also guaranteed and must be paid accordingly.
But also bear in mind that there is preparation and follow-up time. For example, I disinfect twice instead of just once. Not because I don't trust my work or my reputable disinfectant, but because twice is better than once.
My disinfectant is RKI- and/or VAH-listed. (Lists of tested and approved disinfectants)
I therefore prefer to use my own equipment for the session, as I can be sure that it is intact and clean.
In every studio I book, I also disinfect the floors, furniture, machines and their attachments, as well as accessories, door handles, shower trays, and bath mats in advance.
For example, every guest gets their own gag, even though I could boil and disinfect them. Quality.
15. Spontaneous appointments
Very spontaneous appointments are only possible if I am available. A deposit is also required in this case to secure the appointment.
This also applies to appointments on weekends.
The lead time for appointments when I am not in the studio is at least 12 hours.
